An article from relationship pioneers Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks.
The next step in relationship evolution, is to create a “conscious relationship”. Until you take that step, your relationships are more about trying to heal ego wounds and co-dependency, than real love.
One of the biggest steps, is the willingness to take 100% responsibility in the relationship. Which means, no one gets to take the victim position. A lot harder to do in real-life than in theory. –Pat Novak
“Early in our relationship, we set some big intentions: We wanted to get free of the old patterns that had plagued us in past. Early in our relationship, we set some big intentions: We wanted to get free of the old patterns that had plagued us in past relationships, such as criticism, blame and secret-keeping.”